29 Sep 2018
September 29, 2018

Domina Phenomena: Testimonial

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This was my first time with Mistress Kali, and my goodness, what an experience. She is a Domina Phenomena. She read my mind and understood me more than I understand myself. She was cruel, but tender; it was painful, but lovely. Every knot she ties has true meaning, and she wields her body as cruelly as any whip. But when she does whip, it bites. And she bites. And tramples, and crushes, and torments, and fucks you, body and mind, like it’s Meant To Be. Her sheer physicality is intensely erotic and scarily overwhelming, yet her touch can be light – barely there. But very much there; in the moment, there is no one else and there is nothing else. She hurts, teases, and tortures in equal measure. My pain was her pleasure. I wanted to please her. I hope I did.

I can’t wait for our next adventure together.

H

I’m a 31 year old professional into electronic music, technology, alternative culture. I knew I liked the idea of the woman being in control from a young age and I don’t know if it was related to material I’d seen on the Internet, or some natural consequence of my upbringing. But damn! I love a woman in control.  After my first few relationships with women, I quickly learned the preference was for the man to be in control, so being wary of putting women off with what could be seen as a weakness meaning I wasn’t generally getting what I craved even when I was in a relationship, so I figured when I could I would go to see a professional dominatrix, to see if I could even tolerate being whipped or having my balls clamped. It turns out I can, pretty well!
Review of the Session
It’s a cold windy February evening, but I’ve finally decided I’m gonna do it: I was waiting outside to be met by Mistress Kali.
I was imagining the multitude of possibilities within, then Mistress Kali called me in and showed me into The Serpent Rooms. Mistress was dressed discreetly, which added to the excitement. As soon as you get in you can tell there is no shortage of fun to be had, and thoughts begin to race around questioning whether you should be there.  
After introductions, health concerns and going through the standard rules, I was given the opportunity to talk about my wants and not-wants, and told the safe word.  I was then told to strip naked and kneel in the centre of the room while Mistress prepared.  I couldn’t help but have a look around, to try and figure out what each device was for, and what the likelihood was that it would be used on me.
I quickly assumed the requested position, pleased with the conditions being just right for me to be naked *and* warm. I was so nervous and brimming with excitement.
Mistress then walked in, somehow looking friendly, stern, and super sexy all at once.  She was wearing thigh-high platform boots which i could have spent the entire session admiring, and a simple basque and thong to keep enough to the imagination.  Altogether looking even more beautiful than her website would have you think, if I’m honest.
After being tied with my legs apart and arms up and apart, I was subjected to my first experience of being tickle tortured!!! I had only had aggressive STOP RIGHT NOW responses when trying this on others in the past, but I went with it and it turned out to be the most fun, erotic tickle I have ever had.  There were a couple of instances of my subconscious trying to make me head-butt Mistress, but I managed to overpower it / she dodged me; I assume she fears nothing.
The friendly tickling introduction soon turned into a demonstration of Mistress’ various whips and flogging implements, demanding I counted up to ten with each one and of course thanking her for each one.  I can’t quite explain it but the sharper the sting, the better, and they gradually got sharper. I quivered and had a moment of wobbly legs before being given a break.
Mistress tied me up in some incredible bondage and put me in a ball clamp.  This was the worst pain yet, but one I’d been waiting for. This was followed by some more bondage to make the predicament even more ridiculous,  I think Mistress was generally amused by the situation and sat down for a minute to have a smoke, using me as an ashtray.
The last scene of the session involved a mask being put over my head so I couldn’t see anything; I’d been tied rigidly to a table and turned almost upside down, with my hands tied down in heavy gloves and the most powerful nipple clamps I’ve experienced.  The teasing and pain I’d craved was executed perfectly, my mind and my blood were racing, I was aroused beyond belief and after what seemed like endless denial, I was finally allowed release. I will be dreaming of this incredible experience until next time.
J
Ever dreamt of being plucked out of your comfort zone entirely?
You are standing in a strange place where you’ve been told to wait, with just a couple of simple instructions to follow. It is dark, maybe there are people around, or maybe there is nobody to be seen. You have on you just your simplest belongings, because you have no idea who’s going to capture you.
Suddenly, you are taken from behind, hooded, gagged and tied up.
You are in the back of a stranger’s vehicle, the only familiarity you have is the winding of the roads, the speed bumps, the traffic sounds. How long have you been here? Who are they? Where are you? Why are you here?
A powerful voice is talking to you, she is strict and unfamiliar but you feel compelled to follow her orders. Maybe they will play with you, with your body and mind. Are there other voices? Who might they be? What is reality anymore? You lose track of time, space, you are beholden to the present moment.
Then, you find yourself in stillness, and you are senseless and powerless.
Here you are stripped of everything that is yours, you are at your most vulnerable and ‘they’ are in complete control for the coming hours. You see your captors, maybe towering above you, maybe for small glimpses of face, flesh, smell. They are striking and stunning and strong. They are the Kidnap Mistresses and you have no choice but to do what they demand.
Being kidnapped is the ultimate surrender into the world of submission and the unknown. Many people fantasise about this, but are unsure how to make it a reality. Come and play.
Frequently asked questions:
Will I be safe?
We know what we are doing. You will be safe.
What if we get caught?
Leave this for us to deal with. What we are doing is an agreement, it is not illegal. If we ask you to speak up, then speak up and be honest about the arrangement.
But if I know what is going to happen, will it be as exciting as it sounds?
Yes. Trust us. Every kidnap is different. There is only so much that can be controlled and the reality of the situation, the uncertainties, the risks are always revealing themselves. Even for us. This is why people come back and do them again and again, sometimes tens of times. Every time is different, every time is exhilarating, and your imagination cannot beat the real experience.
How long is it for?
Mistress Pip with a victimThe entire time from the snatch to discharging you can be 6 or 12 hours. Different lengths of time can be negotiated, and it can be shorter, but we ask for a minimum tribute for 6 hours standard due to the preparation and planning that goes into each one.
Where will we end up? How do I get home?
In one of a few dungeons in North London. That is all you need to know. We can book a taxi for you at the end to get home, or if you live outside London you can get a hotel or sleep at the dungeon until the first trains.
Will I get hurt?
We will agree on your likes and dislikes, and a safe word via email before the kidnap. This goes for in and outside the dungeon part. If you request no pain, we will respect this throughout the kidnap.
What if I have health problems or I am disabled?
You must make us aware of anything before the kidnap. ESPECIALLY heart problems, breathing problems or physical pain/injury. We have kidnapped people of all ages and physical abilities and we will take this into account and plan accordingly. If you are in a wheelchair this is not a problem. We have found some of the most enriching kidnaps and sessions to be with non-able bodied people, it is truly an exciting experience that can be hugely liberating.
Can I organise one for a friend or my partner? Can I be there?
Yes, this is also a lot of fun. We welcome couples, and if this is a surprise for your partner we can include you in the scenario as much as you like. We advise of course that the person being ‘snatched’ is familiar with kink practices, use of a safe word, and has a strong heart (because the fear factor may be heightened!)
Do you offer kidnaps for all genders and sexualities?
Yes! some people assume these experiences are mainly for men. It is true that cis men make up the majority of our sessions and kidnaps, but we welcome and encourage (and are familiar with) females, trans people, and anybody on the gender spectrum. Please let us know by email before how you would like your body to be treated and how you identify, or would like to identify in this context.
If I have a particular role play or scenario in mind, can you accommodate?
Of course! We can play out particular scenarios, who we might be, why you are there, what has led up to you being snatched from your reality. You can outline this in our correspondence beforehand. We will have ours and your safety in mind, so there are some limitations, but theatre is full of possibility.
How do I secure the kidnap and what can I expect beforehand?
Once you have told us your interests and we have decided on a date and time, we will ask you for a deposit. This is simply because this takes a lot of planning and preparation and expenses to arrange. There are many timewasters out there who only intend to talk at length about their fantasies, and either never secure the booking or do not show up. When you have made the deposit we can talk more about any specific requests. Remember though, we know what we are doing and mystery is a lot of fun. Try not to control too much of the situation, especially for your first time(s), and leave it up to us to work our magic….
MIstress Kali xx
See more at www.kidnapmistresses.co.uk